Any reading of game related literature will reveal the numerous ways women will seek to test and annoy their man. I certainly do not seek to deny that. However, as I said before, in Myers-Briggs terms, not all women are the same. Each type may express their perfidy in different ways.
Anything you say. . .
That ability to remember the slightest slight, the smallest misstep, or the vaguest promise, and spit it back months later, is a function of introverted sensing (Si). Introverted sensing is prominent in all xSxJ women. It may be worse in Feeling types, who have greater social expectations and less pragmatism about the give-and-take of such things. Introverted sensing (Si) is the preferred function of ISFJ and ISTJ, and second most preferred for ESFJ and ESTJ.
Types: ISFJ > ESFJ > ISTJ > ESTJ
Testing . . .Testing
We know they all do it, but shit testing is most likely a function of extraverted thinking (Te). Extraverted thinking is prominent in all xxTJ women. It may be worse in xNTJ women. Just imagine the horror of an evening with DC Lawyer Bitch (ENTJ) or being harangued by Ayn Rand (INTJ). The xSTJ types may attempt to directly boss you around (do this, wear that), where xNTJ may attempt tests of your will (arguing anything to the bitter end), in either case easygoing men need to tread with non-care.
Types: ENTJ >= INTJ >> ESTJ > ISTJ
Distracted by bright and shiny things
Likely a function of extraverted sensation (Se). Extraverted sensation is preferred by xSxP women. The allure of BSTs is probably strongest for ESFP and least for the relatively pragmatic ISTP (who may be as happy fiddling with engines, guns, or other guy stuff).
Types: ESFP >> ESTP > ISFP >>> ISTP
Takes everything the wrong way
While this may be just a form of shit-test, it could also be a function of introverted feeling (Fi). Introverted feeling is strongest for xxFP women. The “wrong way” analysis may be strongest for NFP, because the imaginative extraverted intuition (Ne) can create all manner of possibilities that it feeds to introverted feeling. Some NFJ types may also express this, because introverted intuition (Ni) searches for deeper meanings that may not exist. The ESFP’s greater connection with the outer world of sensation may blunt this effect.
Types: INFP > ENFP >> ISFP = INFJ = ENFJ >= ESFP
Flighty and flakey
This is the other side of the sensitivity described above. The capriciousness is driven by the same volatile introverted feeling (Fi). Flakiness will be more prominent in SFP compared to the less sensation driven NFP. Although NFJs were included above, they may be more prone to follow through on commitments. Other than that, this is a mirror image of the previous list.
Types: ESFP >> ISFP = ENFP >>> INFP
But what would the neighbors think?
Being enthralled by the group is a function of extraverted Feeling. Extraverted feeling is preferred amongst all xxFJ women. Extraverted feeling seeks to establish and honor the needs of the group. It does not necessarily imply weak will; it is merely that their goal is to ensure harmony (where the extraverted thinking of the xxTJ wants to organize for efficiency). The group effect is likely stronger for the more concrete xSFJ types.
Types: ESFJ > ISFJ >> ENFJ >= INFJ
Hey babe, I prefer a nice ass, not a smart ass
She cannot help trying to prove just how much smarter than you she is. Unlike the battle of wills of NTJs, this is a battle of wits. Most likely extraverted intuition (Ne) is doing the work here. Extraverted intuition is favored by xNxP women. The smart-assery will be more prominent in thinking types (xNTP) but may also occur with ENFP and, to a much lesser extent, INFP.
Types: ENTP >> INTP = ENFP >>> INFP
Probably a function of introverted thinking (Ti). Introverted thinking is favored by xxTP, but the tomboy effect probably only appears strongly in the IxTP types.
Types: ISTP > INTP >>>> ESTP > ENTP
As you can see each female type may have expertise in more than one way to inflict misery on the hapless male, and many women will adapt to less favored functions if needed (e.g., flightiness from an INTJ, test of will from an ESFP). What you can be certain of is that they will test you. I hope these brief descriptions helped you assess the challenges that await you in the Myersian jungle.